The very first belief, twists the thought in the head. That when someone confirms our "view of something", we often become hostages of our thoughts. We do not hear his "view", but only his words that we are "right". And this person becomes interesting to us.
Your quote reminds me of one of Jordan Peterson's rules for life: Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world.
Haven’t heard that quote but that is VERY well said.
"Having your views confirmed is a powerful and addictive drug."
The very first belief, twists the thought in the head. That when someone confirms our "view of something", we often become hostages of our thoughts. We do not hear his "view", but only his words that we are "right". And this person becomes interesting to us.
Easy manipulation -> big problems
"Tell people what they want to hear and you can be wrong indefinitely without penalty."
4 belief intersects with 1 if 1 is viewed from this point of view